وَعَنْ أَنَسٍ
قَالَ: مَرَّ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِامْرَأَةٍ تَبْكِي عِنْدَ قَبْرٍ فَقَالَ: «اتَّقِي اللَّهَ وَاصْبِرِي» قَالَتْ: إِلَيْكَ عَنِّي فَإِنَّكَ لَمْ تُصَبْ بِمُصِيبَتِي وَلَمْ تَعْرِفْهُ فَقِيلَ لَهَا: إِنَّهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ. فَأَتَتْ بَابَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَلَمْ تَجِدْ عِنْدَهُ بَوَّابِينَ فَقَالَتْ: لَمْ أَعْرِفْكَ. فَقَالَ: «إِنَّمَا الصَّبْرُ عِنْدَ الصَّدْمَةِ الْأُولَى»
Anas told that when the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) came upon a woman weeping at a grave he said, “Fear God and show endurance.” She, not recognising him, replied, “Go away, for you have not been afflicted as I have.” She was told that he was the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), so she went to his door, and finding no doorkeepers there she said, “I did not recognise you.” He replied, “Endurance is shown only at the first blow.” (Bukharl and Muslim.)