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Sunan Ibn Majah 1985

“The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: ‘Do not beat the female slaves of Allah.’ Then Umar came to the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and said: ‘O Messenger of Allah, the woman have…

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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ، أَنْبَأَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ، عَنْ إِيَاسِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي ذُبَابٍ

قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «لَا تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللَّهِ». فَجَاءَ عُمَرُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَدْ ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ فَأْمُرْ بِضَرْبِهِنَّ. فَضُرِبْنَ فَطَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ طَائِفُ نِسَاءٍ كَثِيرٍ فَلَمَّا أَصْبَحَ قَالَ: «لَقَدْ طَافَ اللَّيْلَةَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً كُلُّ امْرَأَةٍ تَشْتَكِي زَوْجَهَا فَلَا تَجِدُونَ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارَكُمْ»

“The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: ‘Do not beat the female slaves of Allah.’ Then Umar came to the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and said: ‘O Messenger of Allah, the woman have become bold towards their husbands? So order the beatin g of them,’ and they were beaten. Then many women went around to the family of Muhammad.

The next day he said: ‘Last night seventy women came to the family of Muhammad, each woman complaining about her husband. You will not find that those are the best of you.’”

ইয়াস ইবনু ‘আবদুল্লাহ্ ইবনু আবূ যুবাব (রাঃ) থেকে বর্ণিত। তিনি বলেন, রসূলুল্লাহ সাল্লাল্লাহু আলাইহি ওয়াসাল্লাম বলেছেনঃ তোমরা আল্লাহর দাসীদের প্রহার করো না।

অতঃপর ‘উমার (রাঃ) নবী সাল্লাল্লাহু আলাইহি ওয়াসাল্লাম এর কাছে এসে বলেনঃ হে আল্লাহর রসূল! নারীরা তো তাদের স্বামীদের অবাধ্যাচরণ করছে। তিনি তাদেরকে মারার অনুমতি দিলেন এবং তারা প্রহৃত হলো। পরে অনেক নারী রসূলুল্লাহ সাল্লাল্লাহু আলাইহি ওয়াসাল্লাম এর বাড়িতে সমবেত হলো।

সকাল বেলা তিনি বলেনঃ ‘‘আজ রাতে মুহাম্মাদের পরিবারে সত্তরজন মহিলা এসে তাদের প্রত্যেকেই নিজ নিজ স্বামীর বিরুদ্ধে অভিযোগ করেছে। তোমরা মারপিটকারীদেরকে তোমাদের মধ্যে উত্তম হিসাবে পাবে না।

ایاس بن عبداللہ بن ابی ذباب رضی اللہ عنہ کہتے ہیں کہ نبی اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا: اللہ کی بندیوں کو نہ مارو ، تو عمر رضی اللہ عنہ نبی اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے پاس آئے اور کہنے لگے: اللہ کے رسول! عورتیں اپنے شوہروں پہ دلیر ہو گئی ہیں، لہٰذا انہیں مارنے کی اجازت دیجئیے ( چنانچہ آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے اجازت دے دی ) تو ان کو مار پڑی، اب بہت ساری عورتیں محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے گھرانے کا چکر کاٹنے لگیں، جب صبح ہوئی تو آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا: آل محمد کے گھر آج رات ستر عورتیں آئیں، ہر عورت اپنے شوہر کی شکایت کر رہی تھی، تو تم انہیں ( زیادہ مارنے والے مردوں کو ) بہتر لوگ نہ پاؤ گے ۔

Telah mengabarkan kepada kami [Muhammad bin Ash Shabbah] berkata, telah memberitakan kepada kami [Sufyan bin Uyainah] dari [Az Zuhri] dari [Abdullah bin Abdullah bin Umar] dari [Iyas bin Abdullah bin Abu Dzubab] ia berkata, "Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bersabda: "Janganlah sekali-kali kalian memukul budak-budak perempuan Allah (para isteri)."

Lalu Umar datang kepada Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam seraya berkata, "Ya Rasulullah, kaum wanita telah berani kepada suami-suami mereka, maka perintahkanlah untuk memukulnya." Maka mereka pun dipukul sehingga ada sekelompok wanita mengelilingi keluarga Muhammad shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam.

Di pagi harinya beliau bersabda: "Tadi malam, keluarga Muhammad telah dikelilingi oleh tujuh puluh wanita, semuanya mengadukan tentang suaminya. Maka kalian tidak mendapati mereka lebih baik dari kalian

lyas bin Abdillah bin Ebi Zübab (r.a.)'den rivayet edildiğine göre; Nebi (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) şöyle buyurdu, demiştir: «Allah'ın cariyeleri dövmeyin.» Bu emirden sonra Ömer (r.a.), Nebi (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem) 'in yanına gelip: Y& Resulallah! (bu emrinizden sonra) Kadınlar cesaretlenip kocalarına itaatsizlik etmeye başladılar, dedi.

Bunun üzerine (te'dip için ve yara bere bırakmıyacak tarzda) kadınları dövme ruhsatı verildi. Kadınlar da dövüldü. Bundan sonra Muhammed (Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem)'in zevcelerine çok sayıda kadın gitti, (kendilerini şiddetle döven kocalarından şikayet ettiler.) Ertesi gün sabahleyin Efendimiz şöyle buyurdu. «Bu gece yetmiş kadın Muhammed (Sallallahu aleyhive Sellem)'in zevcelerine vardılar.

Her birisi kendi kocasından (şiddetli dövmesinden) şikayet etti. Artık siz, karılarını (böylesine) döven adamları iyileriniz olarak bilmeyiniz.»" Diğer tahric: Bu hadisi Ebu Davud, Darimi ve Beyhaki de müteaddit yollarla rivayet etmişlerdir

Sunan Ibn Majah 1985, Book 9, The Chapters on Marriage, Hadith 141. 1 min read

What it means

The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) forbade the beating of wives. Then the Commander of the Believers, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him), came and said: O Messenger of Allah, women have become bold toward their husbands, and their manners have worsened. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him), thus, permitted beating them in a manner that is not severe if there is a valid reason for it, such as refusing to fulfill the husband's rights or disobedience and the like.

Then, after that, women came to the wives of the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) complaining that their husbands were beating them severely and misusing this concession. So the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: Those men who beat their wives severely are not the best among you.

What it teaches

  • A clarification of the virtue of treating women kindly, and that being patient with them and overlooking their faults is better than beating them.
  • Allah Almighty made beating the last step in addressing a wife's disobedience, as He said: {As for those women on whose part you fear rebellion, [first] admonish them, [next] forsake them in bed, and [last] hit them. Then if they obey you, do not take further action against them. Indeed, Allah is Most High, All-Great.} [Surat an-Nisā’: 34] These three steps are to be followed in order, not to be applied all at once. One must begin with advice, admonition, and reminders. If that proves effective, then praise be to Allah. If it does not help, then comes separation in bed. And if that still does not result in change, only then may one resort to beating, as a form of discipline, not out of revenge.
  • A man is a caretaker for his household, and he is responsible for raising and disciplining his family with wisdom and good counsel.
  • It is permissible to question or review a scholar regarding his Fatwa (legal opinion), to understand its consequences and outcomes.
  • It is permissible to lodge a complaint with the ruler or a scholar if the complainant suffered harm.

From the Encyclopedia of Translated Prophetic Hadiths, hadeethenc.com.

The chain

Who passed it on, from Ibn Majah back to the one who was there.

  1. 1Ibn MajahCompiler, died 273 AH
  2. 2مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِTold us
  3. 3Sufyan ibn UyaynahReported to us, Third generation, died 197 AH
  4. 4Ibn Shihab az-ZuhriFrom, Successor, died 123 AH
  5. 5Abdullah ibn Abdullah Ibn UmarFrom, Successor, died 105 AH
  6. 6Iyas ibn Abdullah ibn Abi DhubabFrom, Companion

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